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Fine, we have all watched that myth - that "nice guys" do not make it and the 'bad boys" appeal to women - but I don't think it is necessarily true. At least I don't think it has anything to do with being a bad boy vs a nice guy.
I think there are other personality factors involved that maybe bad boys and nice guys have that are the establishing qualities of attraction.
Bad boys usually are less shy, but also they are more confident in general than nice guys. I feel that it would be these personalities that are attracting a woman not the aspect that a guy is bad.
I personally almost never use the "bad boy" approach when attracting women, I am always a perfect gentleman. But, I am not an easy guy to hook and women can tell that easily when talking to me. I am a little reserved, I don't compliment women when I initially meet them or tell them how attractive they are, and most women don't have a clue as to whether I am interested in them or just being good.
That is what sets me away from a "nice guy". Women see me as a good gentleman but haven't a clue if I love them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - prefer that. They are sick and tired of talking to men who praise them.
Girls like guys who are alluring and unique. Attractive girls don't find guys who tell them how beautiful they are to be unique. But a guy who has an enjoyable conversation with them without saying a word about their good looks verbally or non-verbally - now that is both appealing and unique to a beautiful girl.
Also remember that women have different qualities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique differs from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking lady may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how pretty she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a society of perfect gentlemen, might very well see a guy who talks a little awful and naughty to be interesting and special. A woman who knows nothing but arrogant and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be an unusual interesting and unique find.
You see irrespective of what you are like there is a person for you. But you have to identify who that someone would be and then try to maximize how you would meet people like that. So regardless of if you are a bad guy or a nice guy, put yourself in a state where you are interesting and different to the women you encounter and you will be victorious.
One of the most difficult things to learn in life is that irrespective of what you are like there is always someone who is perfectly compatible with you. Even if you are dull there are women who are absolutely compatible with that. Not every one likes to meet and hook up with the life of the gathering.
The problem is people who don't admit themselves for who they are, attempt to act differently and they are not being themselves, so they don't entice anyone. Now if you just accept yourself for who you are and act the way you really are, you will realize that there are people who will choose you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are unexciting or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will get a girl who will accept you for who you are.
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